Cry Me A River, Saudi-American Style

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ABANDONING LIBERTY FOR TYRANNY

A formerly American woman who allowed herself to become enchatteled to a Saudi man has some complaints about Saudi style multiculturalism. It’s funny how even in Saudi Arabia, this formerly American woman’s main concern is the Benjamins. Considering that millions of women have risked everything attempting to escape Islamic slavery for Western liberty [although, to be fair, she'd probably get arrested in Canada for her criticisms of Saudi men, for "Islamophobia" and "racism" -- the man-hating would be okay though], is this funny or pathetic?

Saudis With Multiple Wives - Where Does The Foreign Wife Fit In?

This is a delicate subject which I have touched on briefly in the past. … According to Islam a man may have up to four wives. … Once one has been in the Kingdom for a period of time it is inevitable that a woman will meet other women whose husband has multiple wives.

Among the questions that commonly arise when discussing a multi-wife situation are finances. For example, should a foreign wife give financial help to her husband when there are multiple wives/ex-wives involved in the relationship? Should a foreign wife continue to help support a Saudi husband, if he takes another wife and has other children, without her consent? [HA HA] It seems that foreign wives who may find themselves in such a situation were usually not consulted and/or not aware of the existence of another wife(s) and in many cases had built a good foundation with their Saudi husband such as a house, savings and other assets. … Should a foreign wife (or Saudi wife for that matter) suffer as a result of HIS actions?

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It seems that some women who find themselves in a polygamous relationship against their will or choice feel that they no longer have choices or options; especially if children are involved. [Here's an idea: don't get involved with a man who can treat you like a slave and then legally hook up with another concubine. How about not marrying someone who follows that teachings of an infamous pedophile? How about not mating with someone who adheres to an ideology that asserts that a woman is worth half of a man? Don't go live in a place where you are treated like dirt and have no freedom of religion?] Saudi law automatically grants custody of children to a man in the event a relationship is terminated through divorce. Therefore many women stay unhappily married and in a situation they intensely dislike rather than risk being separated from their husband. If the wife is a foreign wife and divorces due to dissent over the husband having another wife, she automatically loses her mahrem (male guardian) and can be forced to leave the Kingdom without her children. [Who doesn't know this? Cry me a river. Spare a thought for the poor kids growing up in this obscene and revolting society.]

My first instinct is to encourage the woman to be strong and remember she has choices. If the situation is unbearable and bringing her down emotionally, mentally and physically, get out of the situation.

Saudi Arabia: Where Have All the Honorable Men Gone?

It’s been a tough week. Let’s see… one Western wife received a divorce from her Saudi husband. She is now struggling to find a sponsor so she can remain in the Kingdom to be close to her two sons. … Another Western wife left in the middle of the night with the clothes on her back in order to escape an abusive husband. … Another first wife continues her struggle of what to do with her life since learning her husband not only had taken a second wife but that they had a young child together. [Sounds like Obama's mum.] This Saudi recently relocated his second wife and child to the Kingdom and is telling his Western wife of many years that they will likely need to relocate to another residence now that he has two families to support and he cannot maintain the previous lifestyle shared with the first wife. [Always about the almighty dollar! What about sharing your husband's dick with a bunch of other women, spreading STD's hither and yon, degrading yourself, and raising children in such an abnormal and psychologically depraved environment?] A second wife [concubine] continues her struggles on learning when coming to the Kingdom with her Saudi husband that he was not divorced as he had sworn to her. He is also telling her that she must work and support herself as he has to take care of his other family. [$$$] Gee, what does that mean about her? She’s not family? [Actually, no. That would be concubinage you're describing there.] Is she like chopped liver or something? [A bit of Yiddish would have been effective here. But, no, not chopped liver. Chattel. Chattel, I say.]

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Is it any wonder that hearing of such circumstances makes me sometimes question how many honorable men are really here? [No.] Can one really and truly trust a Saudi man? [DUH!] Why does one continue to hear tale after heart wrenching tale? [Hmmm ... I wonder why ...] I better understand why so many women who are here and married to a Saudi discourage other woman from doing so. [Hmmm ... I wonder why ...] I’m not sure if I am at that point yet, but I’m getting close. [Hey Ahmed, your slave's starting to get uppity!] I realize life never has any guarantees but one has got to ensure a deck is stacked in their favor before contemplating giving up jobs, family ties, what is known before venturing off into the unknown of Saudi Arabia for a man one may not have seen in his natural habitat. Hmm…get me started here and I may start to compare Saudi men to chameleons…adaptable to a situation and taking on whatever role will get them their way… [You think?!]

The Second Wife - She too Feels Pain

So she’s a second wife? She probably knew what she was getting in to then entering into a relationship with a man who already had commitments such as another wife and a family. Most individuals likely refer to her as a homewrecker and wonder why she could not cast her net out for a single man. But you might be surprised…she too has her own story, circumstances and yes, even pain. [Who is this? Oprah!?]

Following typical tradition she met him when he was outside of the Kingdom, by himself, without a sign or hint of another romantic interest, let alone a wife and family. And oh how a Saudi man can charm… [Huh!? If you say so. $audi Charm = Hereditary privilege + Petrodollars] he courted her and charmed her off of her feet. [Vomit.] She was confident she had found her Prince Charming and when he proposed whizzing her off on his Magic Carpet to the Magic Kingdom she was ecstatic and could not wait. [HA HA] Her family were concerned she was going to be so far away but at the same time pleased she had found happiness. [Sure...]

The bubble burst …

The rest is predictable, for anyone with half a brain!

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72 Virgins (Check out the slut in the front showing her ankles!)

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Here’s something from “A Saudi woman back to Saudi Arabia after being away for so long.. I lived abroad a great deal of my life, now I am back and I feel trapped and frustrated”:

I MISS MY CAR!!!!! I miss my nice red car.. God it was so hard for me to sell it .. I left it to the last minute just so That I enjoy it to the last min.. I never had to wait.. or book the driver.. or even think of waiting or missing my thing because of this..I want to cry now..every time I think about going out I miss my car. .. I MISS MY CAR!!!!! .. I don’t want to go out any more.. Ill just stay here.. I cant walk to the place I need to go to.. I cant drive to the place I need to go to.. I don’t have any mean of a public transport to go to the place I need to go.. you know what.. I don’t need to go to that place because now I am just frustrated.. because I miss my CAR!!! Now in tears.. Why Did I ever!!! ahhhh.. Giving up the LOVE of my life was so hard to do.. so hard! that car took me every where on weekends I drove to the country side.. I traveled with that car.. saw new places.. went on outings.. to the summer market.. I miss you my car.. it took care of me and made me verrrryyyy happpy.. now I am miserable.. That car meant freedom to me.. and now I feel caged!

Wimmin driving cars! What next!?

Oh well. At least she wasn’t dumb enough to choose such a fate

I get scared just coming out of the car to get to the door because of all the stories you hear.. now I cant even have a decent conversation in the car or turn to your side just because they think you are looking at them then they would follow you.. this happens almost every car ride I have, it is so annoying.. you have to sit in the car like a stone statue just so they don’t take it the wrong way and think your inviting to be harassed. Just because I am a woman and happen to be walking or riding a car with a driver alone in the street somewhere or a mall then what I heard some say that you are asking for it so you deserve to be harassed!

She hasn’t blogged since January. I wonder if the religious police tracked her down and put her in her place.

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Saudi Bikini

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